The Real Reason Ben Flajnik And Courtney Robertson Ended Their Engagement
Mia Walsh
Published Mar 30, 2026
According to USA Today, "Bachelor" couple Ben Flajnik and Courtney Robertson confirmed they'd called off their engagement in a statement to In Touch, revealing, "We have decided to end our romantic relationship. The ups and downs weighed heavily on us both and ultimately we started to grow apart because of the distance, time apart, and our need to focus on our respective careers." The move came just a few months after they'd had a "soft move-in," to a shared home in San Francisco, and less than a week after Robertson posted photos of them wine harvesting together. The exes confirmed simply, "We have nothing but the utmost respect for each other, and both feel this is the right decision."
Flajnik would only tell People "it's true" when reached for comment. The outlet notes the couple split up on the show too, shortly after he got down on one knee for a romantic mountaintop proposal. By the time "After the Final Rose" rolled around, they were back together again. As Flajnik revealed at the time, "The woman that I saw on TV isn't the Courtney that I know." The couple broke up because of her behavior on the show. They took things slowly after getting back together, even enduring a long-distance relationship. The former Bachelor acknowledged they were slowly "acclimating our lives together and our friends together" but were still getting to know each other. Ultimately, they couldn't manage it.