Signs He's Definitely Not "The One"

You're attracted to other people. You're not a cheater, but you can picture yourself with other guys. There have been times you've wished you weren't in a relationship, just so you could explore other interests. If you've contemplated the idea of breaking up, it's because there's a part of you wants the relationship to be over. If he was really "the one," the idea of not being with him would make you sad. Instead, breaking up sounds like something you're more than willing to do, and that's a red flag you need to consider.